My boyfriend hacked my email, I didnt speak to him for a month, now he's getting married.?

When my boyfriend hacked my email, he found an email from a guy friend whom i have never seen in 15 years, in the email he stated that he missed me, and that the only regret he had was what could have been, he was my brother's best friend. My answer was Ive missed him too and I said that Im very happy now, that my boyfriend is crazy in love with me and loves my two kids. We ended our email with the word "love," and our names. Now he copy pasted the email exchange for his friends to witness, said some hurtful things like I betrayed him, cheated on him, and he's the only who respects me that other men will just want to sleep with me and this is how I repay him. Hcouldn'the loved me with all his heart but could'nt be with me anymore because of this. He tried to win me back after that, he apologized for what he's said and he was just furious and said hurtful things out of anger. I didnt speak to him after that because of the hurtful things that he said to me, I felt so cheap and so low... He's always been like this everytime he's mad, he would send me nasty emails just to feel that Im no better and that he's the only who can accept me for what I am. The truth is I am just girl who's gone through so much failed relationships and I just cant get it right because as he says I attract guys that are losers. Now after a month of silence between us he meets this girl, a week after he asked her to marry him. It took him years to ask me and he said Im the best thing that's ever happened to him and that he couldn't live without me. I didnt want to throw away the years that we've been through, he's always been there for me, loved me and cared for me, given me anything I want and need, he was my best friend and confidente and I thought maybe if I do what he says and stay away from my guy friends we'll be ok, I decided to give it a chance but it was too late, he's already asked someone to marry him and it only happened withing a week. I am now crushed by this...I didn't speak to him because I was hurt, I wanted him to realize what he's done...now he's gone, why would he ask someone to marry him if he loved me? I pray so that the hurting will go away...I dont know if I can be someone again...I can't even cry because I dont want my kids to see me broken...it's all inside of me that's why I decided to write here...help me get over this. I dont know what to do. I love him.

My boyfriend hacked my email, I didnt speak to him for a month, now he's getting married.?
First honey it's going to be okay %26amp; keep praying over it. Second he sounds like when he's mad he verbally abuse you %26amp; that's not cool at all. In my personal opinion try to forget him %26amp; focus on you %26amp; build yourself up %26amp; keep raising your children. And when you least expect it the right man for you will walk into your life. Be with somebody who trust you, loves you for you, appreciate you %26amp; compliment your completeness. Good Luck %26amp; Blessings^_^
Reply:I'll be posting this on the chat forum that I frequent.
Reply:only time will tell
Reply:it s time to move on , look for a new one
Reply:make him realize what he's losing:)
Reply:if they have the heart to break up with u once then they dont REALLY love u :( i learned that the hard way
Reply:get over it. u lose friends. people move on. its not the end of the world
Reply:I know you say you love him, but are you sure? Honestly, he sounds like someone who's really unstable and not worthy of so much love. You sound like a really really nice person, and I really hope that you find the strength to let go of this.





You probably feel attached to him, and attached to the idea of having a strong male figure in your life to be with, for you and your kids sake, but attachment is different from true love which comes from deep mutual trust.





Here's what I have to say:





1) You are not cheap and low. I think that the email exchange that you had with your old friend wasn't bad at all, is not even close to being anything you could call cheating, and is just fine. I've been with my hubby almost seven years, and I still have old friends that yes, I do truly love and care for, just not romantically that are men, and I tell them that. As I'm sure you know, it's just fine for people to have friends that they care about of the opposite sex.





2) If that guy wants to make you feel cheap and low for the email, that is so totally manipulative. He honestly sounds like he's a very manipulative creep. He may not even be getting married at all, and is just saying that to make you feel horrible about yourself.





3) Please don't feel horrible about yourself! Having this guy leave may be the best thing for you... now you're free to meet someone truly wonderful that will treat you well.





4) You mentioned that he said you always date "losers." Maybe that's partly true... what I suggest before you date again is make a list of what you really want. How do you want to be treated? How do you want your children to be treated? How do you see your life in five years, etc etc. Journal about it, pray about it.





I really do wish you the best, and I know how much it hurts when your heart gets broken, I've been there before, and each time I thought I'd never get over the pain, and that I'd never be happy, and hey, I found the best most wonderful man in the world for me seven years ago... and I never would have met him if I hadn't had to go through those heartbreaking experiences.





You can now turn this crisis into an opportunity to make your life, and your children's lives the best it can be.
Reply:He's a jack ***. He is only getting married because he wants to rub it in your face. and that because is he's bitter/pissed off. So that is why he said that the guys you attract are losers... Forgive him though. But whatever, Do what makes you happy. But I think, you should dump him like its hot. for real. He's not worth it. You shouldn't stay away from your guy friends....you need them. I dont have any guy friends, so you are lucky in that department. So keep them.
Reply:Because he was so hurt by what had happened, maybe he just wants to make you jealous and wants to see your reaction. Go chase after him. Tell him you still love him. If he comes back then he's truly yours.
Reply:what a dumb *****!


haha, i give it less than 3 months before he comes crawling back either wanting you or wanting to mess around with you.





you should try to tell him its nothing like what it seems and hes making a big mistake.





or just like tell his wife how yall are still in love and **** and shell let him go. (:
Reply:You got a blessing and see it as a curse. You don't think you deserve anyone better than this guy. You are wrong.





HOWEVER, you need to stop having relationships for yourself and consider your kids. The right man will come along, and you need to be ready for him. Work on yourself. And stay away from ANYONE who drags you down.