Saturday, May 22, 2010

What do I tell him if I hacked into his email?

So yeah he is talking to x. Nothing sexual....but still very hurt. How do I tell him I found out from your myspace account? Ugh THIS SUCKS

What do I tell him if I hacked into his email?
u re sick. no normal woman would do such a thing
Reply:You don't tell him. Why give away your ace! Hold onto it until it, you may need it for a later date.
Reply:Don't tell him yet. He will hang himself if you give him time.
Reply:Keep your mouth shut. I have 2 divorced wifes and I talk to both of them without any bad intention, but saving certain friendship from the past. After all, we spent serious time of our life together, it is not possible to be 100% neutral to each other. My present g/f does not say any bad about this.
Reply:tell him be honest thats part of a marriage is being honest tell him everything from hacking in to to how is makes you feel you might be surprised how he may respond
Reply:call her and tell her to stay away from him...or you will reveal something....and try to avoid doing this in the future to his knowledge..
Reply:stay out of the e-mail. its his. now you know go your own way. or tell him and dance to the music. sorry-wish you the best thanks
Reply:Well if you really want to come clean you are just gonna have to bite the bullet and tell him the truth. Tell him about your insecurities that you have been having. Apologize for snooping, and just talk it out.
Reply:bull...when u're in love, u can do anything.. no rules in love or war... hell yeah, u should spy on him and if he's talking to an ex, then get on his asss... whyyyyyyyyy???!!...if he's with u, he has no reason to talk to his ex... my husband had pictures of his ex and pictures of them together in his phone after a couple months of our marriage...and it pissed the hell out of me...and he does the same thing...checks my mail and phone and all the calls i made and recieved...so i did that too and found out that he had some pictures in his phone.. he was kissing my feet for the entire week and i made him delete it... and well...he found out that i was talkin' to my ex too..and got mad and treated me the same way i treated him..so its all good if you love him and he loves u... and there is just NO reason to talk to ur ex if u're in a relationship... NO reason..
Reply:just tell him! if he gets real fiesty about it then u will no there is a problem, if not he has nothing to hide....
Reply:don't tell him. ask him if he's ever heard from old girlfriends lately and what would he do if one showed up or called. listen real good to his answer. then tell him what you would do if your ex showed up or called. let it go from there. if there are any lies to be told, like he hasn't heard from any one, you know the truth and maybe there are other lies he's been telling. why not visit his space and see who else is on line with him and what they talk about.
Reply:tell him that someone told you that he was speaking to his x via myspace. and if he denies it ask him to log in and show you his messages and comments
Reply:Be honest, you found out by going into his myspace account. If you were able to get into his account then he's probably not trying to cover his tracks or hide anything from you. The more you try to hide around the truth with more lie's is just going to make things worse. Don't think of all these ways to word it or lie. It is what it is. You invaded his privacy cause you suspected he was talking to his ex and he was.





Be honest, you're relationship depends on it. The more you beat around the bush the worse off you'll be. Wake him up now and get it over with. You'll feel better when your done.
Reply:Don't tell him you hacked into his email , This is an opportunity for you to really see what kind of person you're really dealing with, confront him about hearing that he's been kicking it or talking to Jane Doe, see whether he comes up with all kinds of lies, whether he decides to sweat, to see what you really know, whether he tries to play it off as nothing, or whether he mans up and comes clean, use what you found out where his sincerity lies.
Reply:If you tell him he will just find another way to communicate with her so if i were you i would wait to find out more. Don't you want to know what they are up to?


That's what we women do wrong when we find something out about our better half we get so anxious and hurt we lose our ability to think rationally and so we tell them everything we know,now how stupid is that. Now he knows we know so he changes his tactics because of our stupidity when will we learn.
Reply:I would not tell him. Did you think about what you would do if you got the information you wanted? I was with someone for almost a year, and hacked his email under the suspicion of something was going on. There was, it all seemed Innocent, but later it was not. I am no longer in that relationship and to this day he does not know all that I knew.





What would be the point? You would be given an earful of excuses. Decide if for you, you can accept him chatting with someone esle in this secretive way. Anytime it's a secret, it's a way of hiding something.
Reply:haha i did the same thing! i used the excuse "my friend hacked your account and sent me this email?".im lucky that i have faithful friends :] yea imature, yea. not being honest. but at that point i didnt care





but.. if none of yer friends will take the blame.. go on his account and forward yourself an email of theres.. act like you have no idea whats going on ^_^.

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